Tag: #childhood trauma
The Anatomy of Abuse and Forgiveness
I will never be that plate again. I took the bits of myself, gathered up all that I could and I glued myself together. When I couldn’t figure out where the pieces went or found I had lost a piece of myself together, I went to my friends and my writing to find myself and repair the damage.
The ‘plate’ I have become is nothing like what I would have done if he hadn’t smashed me to the floor and if my Judy hadn’t smashed me and if my mother hadn’t smashed me. I have cracks and flaws, I have more dimensions than if I had been left whole. I can see the breaks in other plates and I have compassion for them, sometimes I can help heal some of those cracks or at least buy them a tube of superglue.
Poisoned Fruit: The Antidote is Friends
Poison Fruit Part 2: The Antidote is Friends By Virginia Carraway Stark I had put up with no end of indignities and outright slavery in my life but I was getting fed up and I began to lash out. The first victory that I had was the day that I refused to pour my Dad…
Poisoned Fruit: My Life with an Evil Stepmother
I met my step-mother one summer afternoon in a Chinese food restaurant. I was determined not to be selfish when I met her. I was determined to put both of my parents happiness before my own sad hurt feelings after the divorce and the loneliness that comes from seeing what was once whole become broken. I knew that I was emotional and overwrought and I put all of those feelings aside in the hope that both of my parents could find the happiness that they were seeking.
How I Became a Real Life Cinderella
What happens to the evil stepsisters in the Cinderella story after Cinderella runs away with her prince charming and starts a life of her own?